Dust makes some excellent points.
Thinking about Dust's points, is there any way you could try out some of his ideas? Try them on for size?
If you do, I suggest you combine it with lots of reassurance. "I love you, H. I'll text you when I arrive at the hotel, and I'll text you when I take a bathroom break to let you know I'm safe. I'll text you when I'm in the car driving home."
And when you arrive at home, give him a long, long languid kiss. And tell him you love him.