R says yes
So I told R that I needed assurance from him that him coming out here wasnt going to change at the drop of a hat, so I asked him to be my BF, long distance for now, so that if he changed his mind he could just break up with me and I wont feel the need to bug him about coming out here.
He said hes still working out the thing with his baby momma, but yes. I think he understands where I'm coming from at least.
So I'll update my siggy!