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Old 01-03-2013, 03:07 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
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Having read your other posts, I would say "Vee" - which is how I describe our MFM situation. My boys are best friends (and were before I got "involved") but not sexually involved with each other. When we are sexual all-together (which is a rare, but exciting, occurrence) their sexual attention is focused on me (as they are both straight).

I have seen others here describe an "emotional triad, sexual vee" - we are close to that, but I don't try to define the guy's relationship - that is their domain. If the term "sister-wives" didn't carry such a hefty weight then I would describe them as "brother-husbands"...

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (23+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (4+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
Lotus: "it's complicated"
SLeW: platonic girlfriend + BFF
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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