By the person who took the time to try to help you out by pointing out something you might have been doing to mess up your chances, and also to genuinely explain the meaning of a term to you instead of just making jokes, just because I warned you that you were coming off as shallow and you didn't like my tone? Your loss.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.