So, for the record, the woman you're seeking can be ~20 years younger than you, but not more than ~5 years older than you? And you're not worried about that coming off as completely shallow and a huge turn-off to a potential new partner? Sorry, I know this might sound harsh, but you've gotta realize how it sounds...
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.