Originally Posted by dust
I'm the husband in your situation, and it isn't easy. I haven't read Opening Up, but my wife and I are reading "The Ethical Slut". The chapter on Jealousy has been extremely helpful and eye opening to me.
Its a door that you can't close once you crack it open, for better or worse.
Thank you, Dust. Well...just going by that title alone, I'm 99% sure my husband would not read it, but I think the swinging may work out, kinda. Swinging is not quite the same because you have to deal with the schedules and sex drives of four different people, not to mention two women's menstrual cycles. But I'm crossing my fingers.