Originally Posted by Fish1470
As the mono half of a combination primary it can be pretty hard to wrap your head round it all to begin with. When my wife first came to me and raised the subject she took a lot of time to explain what she was suggesting, why she was suggesting it and then gave me room to think and come back with questions or worries I had.
I read a book called Opening Up, which realy helped me to see past the preconceptions and into the actuality of an open relationship. I wish you luck, but must say that if your open relationship is going to work, time patience and a respect for feelings are paramount.
Thank you Fish. I have lots of patience and nothing but time.