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Old 01-02-2013, 04:50 AM
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Originally Posted by kdt26417 View Post
Hello Holiday,
Welcome to our forum.

I think the first thing you have to remember is that your husband may continue to say no, regardless of what medium of exposure you use with him. What will you do if that proves to be the case? Something to think about ahead of time.

Also, when he says no, is he saying it to *both* of you doing non-monogamous stuff, or to himself doing non-monogamous stuff, or to you doing non-monogamous stuff?

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I think your best bet would be to do a combination of all of the above; they work best in concert. Keep in mind, though, your husband said no to reading one book; he could say no to any number of things. That's strictly up to him. Perhaps there's some medium he'd be more open to (such as watching movies), but I don't know him well enough to say.

For polyamory in movies/music/art:
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showt...=6351#post6351

For book and website recommendations:
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showt...0598#post10598

To find poly groups in your area:
http://polyamory.meetup.com/
http://www.lovemore.com/locallinks.php
http://www.polyamory.org/SF/groups.html
http://polyevents.blogspot.com/#localgroups

Hope some of this helps.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
WOW! Thank you, kdt, that's a lot of great info. I'm looking through the movie list for ideas.
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