You might have better luck if you list some of your interests and how long you've been together, whether you have kids, etc. Take a look over at ok cupid and see the kinds of topics one is supposed to address to form a clearer picture for your dating pool.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37