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Old 12-30-2009, 06:45 PM
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Well, another concept that people like to follow is the idea of going at the speed at which everyone is comfortable.

If there are issues between your boyfriend and her, then this might be exactly the wrong time to be stepping into a new level of intimacy with someone new. Is there a rush, here?

If there is a commonly-held agreement in your group that everyone needs to be onboard before someone new comes in, then everyone should be respecting that, and listening to your concerns.

"Listen, or your tongue will make you deaf." - Native American Proverb
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