Thread: A jealous Ex
View Single Post
  #13  
Old 12-30-2009, 06:04 PM
Fidelia Fidelia is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Right here. Right now.
Posts: 649
Default

The core issue here remains unchanged. If he is committed to polyamory and she is committed to monogamy, they are incompatible at that basic level and should have ended things at that point.

The fact that they remain emotionally entangled with each other is a clear indication that they are each getting something out of continuing the relationship. If they were not, they would have moved on already.

The question you may wish to ask yourself is: What are you getting out of this situation? If the answer is nothing or not much, consider withdrawing until it is resolved.
Reply With Quote