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Old 12-28-2012, 08:47 AM
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I think part of the reason my ex husband and I are so great 8 years later is that though the relationship ended due to deal breakers on his end, I owned up to things I had done that made it clear I wasn't perfect, instead of trying to act as if a relationship ended one sided.

I also wanted to mention I appreciate the discussion of K's issue - it made me realize that although I have been openly open with my comfort with the idea of cohabitation with co-primaries (mine, not my husbands, his might want to have input on interior design....) my husband's lack of interest in living with another partner is an important factor in what I can offer somebody - as what I want and what I will actually offer are different. Not that I think I'd ever be unclear with anybody, but it sure is important to have clarity about these things.
Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.
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