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Old 12-28-2012, 01:48 AM
nondy2 nondy2 is offline
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I don't think saying O this mental illness sucks! helps. Mental illness isn't something to be attacked or blamed. It's a matter of dealing with the behaviors and the person (as every person is different) and seeing if your SO wants the person in their life. I don't believe in categorizing a person by a label - saying O my lover has aspbergers or depression so he's like THIS. What are the behaviors? Is the person in treatment? And finally, is this your relationship to accept or reject? I like my husband's meta, but I find her immature in several WAYS. it also bothers me that she's not any kind of activist, and seems to enjoy a somewhat surface lifestyle, thought. But she's not MY gf so...
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