Originally Posted by GalaGirl
What are you afraid of losing to "damage?"
Maybe because his wife wants to date her close friend/business partner, who is an experienced poly woman and is skittish about starting a sexual/romantic relationship, because if the relationship doesn't work out, it could ruin their friendship and partnership.
Plus, he and his wife might lose some of their "innocence," both having been virgins on their wedding night...
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)