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Old 12-25-2012, 09:13 PM
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You know, when we have the "high class problem" of choosing which partner or love interest we will spend time with on a holiday, there is another, perhaps better, choice to make. We can volunteer our time serving in a soup kitchen or distributing meals to house-bound seniors who have more pressing concerns. That would solve a lot more than just the power struggle between metamours.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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