Here's where I'm at right now: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showt...804#post173804
Still sometimes finding myself overwhelmed and scared. We seem to be able to communicate pretty clearly, though, and I know we're solid. It's like the first time you're in a major thunderstorm: you're a little freaked out, but you realize the house you're in has been there for many decades and withstood worse. We've handled bigger thunderstorms than this. This one just has a different color lightning or something, and it makes the windows rattle, throws different shadows.
I don't think we're going to branch out very far. We're very new to these ideas, but I still feel very mono, and my wife has been bi for a long time without wanting to be with anyone besides me until recently, and that was a very slow thing to develop.