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Old 12-24-2012, 04:36 AM
Nathan Nathan is offline
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That's wonderful. I think really, when you get through all the "kink" in cuckolding, this is the statement you'll find with most serious partners. It's just a situation where the husband devotes himself to the wife's happiness, and he derives a great deal of enjoyment from that. Peel back the theatrics and little things, and it's a very basic set of principles.
That's right Rjsolo. The most important thing to me is that she is as happy as she can possibly be. I think her happiness is more important to me than my own. I think this is a common theme for cuckolds, they put their girls wants and needs first!

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I'm going through the same relationship now. We originally started as both seeing others, but then we stopped once we got serious in our professional lives (We have 2 children from her previous marriage as well, makes it hard to go out and be kinky.) But recently, she let me know that she has been missing it, especially the more aggressive/dominant tendencies of her ex.
Well, I wish you the best of luck, and I hope it goes as well for the three of you, as it has gone for us. I don't think that it would be an easy thing for most couples. I believe that you have to have a lot of confidence in your own love, and in your day to day relationship. Our relationship is very solid. Is the Bull the father of the two children?

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I, however, have not been missing other women...and so we kind of fell into a cuckolding dynamic. And I'm more fulfilled by it then when I used to see other women. It's wonderful watching her get what she needs, and then being there for her afterwords, in the way that we connect (Emotionally.)...and I'd be lying if it was not extremely arousing to see the differences between what I can do and what her lover can, and we incorporate that play into our play while we're laying together (Usually involving just tertiary sex acts..heh, she jokes she is too tired and sore after him! Drives me wild.)
Aurelie and I have agreed that I will never see any other woman, and that I am for her, and her alone. To be honest, I never wanted to, but by making it clear between the two of us, that I am her cuckold, she has relaxed about our future a lot more, and is able to express herself in her role of a cuckoldress, which she very much enjoys. I know why she enjoys that role, but will not put words in her mouth. Like you, I enjoy watching her get what she needs sexually, or just knowing that she is getting it is enough. To hold her after, is I think, the thing that I like best about it. We also incorparate what her and Scott do into our own play, and as with you, this is done with teasing when she is playing and toying with me, after thet have had sex. Scott does exhaust her, they don't do quick sex! haha We have found that 100% honesty between us is a must!
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