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Old 12-22-2012, 04:47 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Just based on what you have posted, if I were in your position my response to HER would likely be:

"I'm sorry that you are feeling that way. Perhaps could you and I could meet up and talk after the hustle and bustle of the holidays are over. I'm free Jan 4/5/6 for coffee or drinks."

Since she was the one who contacted you, and she is the one with the reservations then I would focus on seeing if that is reconcilable first off.

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