I really appreciate all the sympathetic thoughts, Fuchka, thank you. I think you're totally right about the way only people we love can take us to such an intense place, good or bad. Very good ideas about framing my physical relationships and about self-care. And I get what you're saying about the therapeutic uses of kink, definitely, though I don't think we're quite ready to go that deep.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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