Greetings Shy Lady,
Welcome to our forum.
Visit our Dating & Friendships subforum
if you haven't already done so. It will let you post an ad for your locality, with a better chance of takers.
In the meantime, have a look around our site in general and see what threads call to you. There's a lot to read and post here.
Sounds like you and your husband have a wonderful relationship, and you know what you're looking for. I hope you find everything that you desire.