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Old 12-20-2012, 07:20 PM
FreeSpirit FreeSpirit is offline
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Well, I did voice outright that I was uneasy with it, but in such a way that implied that it'd be fine after I got used to the feelings, which I thought was true at the time. After more thought, I realized it wasn't really something I wanted to be comfortable with in regards to this particular person.

If I could have gone back and changed things, I would have asked her to hold off on it until I had more time to figure out my feelings, but doing that went very poorly in a past relationship, so I told her to just go for it and not worry about my current feelings on the matter. If nothing else, the experience has taught me that I shouldn't and needn't be afraid to ask such things of her.
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