Thread: Bi = Poly?
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Old 12-19-2012, 05:06 AM
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Originally Posted by leslie View Post
I think the advice about species, was to stick to poly people, asking mono or straight folks out led to disappointment.
Well, I don't agree that all non-poly people are necessarily a bad choice. Many people previously monogamous are open to non-exclusivity.

But... of course asking straight women out would lead to disappointment because... um, well, they're straight! Was there a reason why you thought that wouldn't matter?
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