Some while back, you were distressed that your SO was going to take your baby and leave you unless you stopped pestering her to have threesomes with other girls and to let you date other girls.
Obviously I haven't been following your blog. Now she's okay with you being poly, and wants to date other men herself? She no longer considers herself "mono wired"?
And now you're worried you might look like a tool if you encourage other guys to use her for sex?
Single, straight, female, solo, non-monogamous.