I hear what you are saying. I feel much the same. I want a more developed and sharing atmosphere with my community, and I realized that I need to first develop a relationship with just one other person and with honesty, trust, and if I can use the word in a positive sense; co-dependence. We depend on each other to lift the union. I realized that I need a larger unit than two people, but had to start with one other before I could move to three. It's only logical.
Poly came in the back door, because; face it: Sex sells.
I have sold myself on it. I was a pushover.
Last edited by alphafour; 06-09-2009 at 03:33 AM.