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Old 12-29-2009, 06:14 AM
Donovon Donovon is offline
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Join Date: Dec 2009
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Exclamation Looking for some help

Hello everyone,

I don't even know how to go about asking for advice or even just some people who can say "Yeah I know how that goes but it will get better" or " Well this is how I deal with it" But My wife and I have just recently made the decision to go poly and at first she was extremely jealous of me even so much as hugging my female friends and the such. This is before we decided to explore the poly option. She now has another and they are doing well, yet from time to time I get all crazy and I am like " That is my wife!" Then I take a step back and go I made this decision chill out. I am wondering if this is normal. I like the guy she is seeing he is great and nothing but respectful and awesome to her and myself. Even recently I have spoken to her and we have decided it is ok if I pursue another but I don't have the want to, and that is the other thing that is strange that even though I have made the decision to be poly with my wife is it weird that I am not looking to take advantage of what I am allowed to do?

Sorry about rambling on but I just need some advise or something thank you
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