Originally Posted by Daysleeper
He says he's monogamous, yet is perfectly willing to carry on with this behavior when most of the time we see one another, my husband is with us, and I make no effort to hide my other relationships. He has very rarely shown any sign of jealousy or emotional problem with the situation. How is this mono behavior?
Mono means he
doesn't want to be involved with more than one person at a time. The lack of jealousy, etc, just means he's a mono who is tolerant of poly in others. It doesn't in any way mean he's not mono himself.
If he agrees to being in a relationship with you then—being mono—it means that for now he's given up on finding "The One" for himself.