Same for me. I expected the threat to be about your and Elemental's poly-break and how things developed around it. I would second what Annabel and Anne already said. Something along the lines of recognizing the pattern, connecting it to your own experience and disagreeing with it or being concerned how long this may play out well and when the downside will come for your friends.
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.