Well, I hesitate to say it, but is it possible that you're uncomfortable because you see something of yourself reflected in her? Between Elemental, Sync, Mahogany, Lily, and Willow, weren't you involved with the same number of people (and the exact same gender ratio, actually, three same sex and two opposite sex) as your friend in a very short amount of time, and still potentially open to others? Maybe you are trying to give yourself a message here, that letting yourself become oversaturated is a pattern of behavior that you want to avoid in the future.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
Last edited by AnnabelMore; 12-14-2012 at 04:48 AM.