Ok, so, I am super proud of myself. My husband has been wanting to try poly for quite a while, but I've been dragging my feet. Although poly interested me, I was letting fear get in the way. What if he finds someone and I don't, what if I get jealous, what if nobody wants me, blah blah, blah. Then I just thought, you know what, eff you, fears. Time to face you! All my "fears" are just that, fears. They are not based in reality. Realizing that and facing them is so empowering. Who *wouldn't* want me? I'm awesome. Heehee.