Welcome to our forum.
Sounds like you've had quite a journey getting to where you are today. Your story will help many people, and you'll find people who relate to your situation here.
Take your time and get to know the site well; see what threads call to you; use search and tag search; post when you have any thoughts or questions to share.
It's a little tricky trying to date as a polyamorous person, compared to monogamous dating. You have to be honest with people, which is scary because you don't know what their reactions will be. The HSV2 is an extra hurdle.
Anyway, I am glad to have you aboard, and wish you the best.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"