Thanks, last 3 posters! I really appreciate all you had to say. I know my self worth is an issue...I rely on others for my happiness now. 5 yrs ago (pre-marriage) I was more independent and grounded. Now I am much more needy. I don't know how to get back to where i was bus yes, I want to.
Queer and married with kids and unsure about poly even after all this time.