Originally Posted by nondy2
Don't worry! Poly isn't (too me ) all about notches on a bedpost. In fact, I haven't met many (if any) poly people who are sluts.
Maybe due to being in bdsm but most of the poly ppl I know are swingers and / or sleep w random ppl they don't even know. I see it happen a lot and it really is a turn off to me.
I know poly can be done in many ways so maybe I should just find new poly friends.