Originally Posted by BoringGuy
Before I make a complete ass of myself, I will ask the question: Is English your first/native language or did you learn English later in life?
Because your question was in pretty plain English. I'm not sure how "asking the right questions" has to do with being "completely new" to poly. There are no "right questions", just relevant ones. It seemed from your original post that you did indeed ask the questions that were relevant, and you got answers that were likewise relevant.
If you want different answers, ask different questions. Don't get discouraged because people answered the exact question you asked.
Again I'm sorry for that...I will not ask any other questions. Again...thank you to those that did provide advice in your responses...I did appreciate that.