Originally Posted by jewels6675
Again I'm completely new to all of this...and I'll be the first to admit I have no clue how to ask the proper questions in order for others to give advice...if I worded it incorrectly I'm sorry for that...
Before I make a complete ass of myself, I will ask the question: Is English your first/native language or did you learn English later in life?
Because your question was in pretty plain English. I'm not sure how "asking the right questions" has to do with being "completely new" to poly. There are no "right questions", just relevant ones. It seemed from your original post that you did indeed ask the questions that were relevant, and you got answers that were likewise relevant.
If you want different answers, ask different questions. Don't get discouraged because people answered the exact question you asked.