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Old 12-09-2012, 12:26 PM
Vinccenzo Vinccenzo is offline
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Originally Posted by Cleo View Post

I remember a time this summer when my husband was in a crisis and he asked me to skip a visit to C, my BF. My husband was upset and hurting and I wanted to be there for him, so I did what he asked. But at the same time I felt he was pushing a boundary, and had he asked me again, we would have had a big problem.

That was the first time I felt that if he, or any other person in my life, would ask me to choose, I would not choose one particular other person - I would choose ME, even if that would mean losing one or more relationhip(s) with others.
This word crisis; I do not think it means what you think it means.
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