Originally Posted by FitChick
I guess its just the part of me that hates fighting,that is why I made the effort,I can't see us having regular contact but I guess I just wanted to 'test the waters' but I do get your point...the only value I see coming out of this is that she may be able to manipulate him but not me,I now know that this is just her trying to assert her 'property rights'.
You are showing him you will not be manipulated also and how he can conduct himself differently with her too.
Good for you. She will peter out when she sees it isn't working and finds someone else to hopefully have the relationship she wants to have with.