Originally Posted by MikeinYork
Im from PA. My wife and I just started discussing the topic of another partner. I am totally open to it and have had an affair. She is open to talking about it but is not willing at this point to experience it. Would love to hear from anyone in my situation.
I'd get your self and your wife into therapy so you can strengthen the marriage. Adding more people into the mix will not solve your marital problems, it would only enhance them. Therapy first. Fun later.
I know it's not what you wanted to hear. Maybe someone else will say something that will leave you smiling.....