Thank you for your response, Love2Bake!
I love the thought of the introduction with my son. This is not a triad, it is a Vee. I was not forced into this. It was my choice, to enter this lifestyle change along with my husband. Of course, there are never guarantees with any relationship. I am fully aware of that. I do realize my worth, and I would never settle for scraps.
I hope for peace of mind, atleast a better understanding. It's all so new, and I know there are no rule books for this. I appreciate the hugs!