Originally Posted by APAcircleofthree
She doesn't want meeting me to ruin their ceremony next week.
So, their ceremony is more important to her than establishing a good and respectful relationship with her "co-wife?" Oy!
Your husband is being inconsiderate. Asking you to allow someone you haven't even met yet to share custody of your son? That sounds like a crazy person's request. Seriously. If I were you, I would keep my son away from her until I knew her and she proved trustworthy. WTF!!!
I am sure you will get a few more responses here. You should share this thread with him after a few more people write in. He needs some real-world experienced poly folk to give their perspectives and maybe he will see how fucked up his priorities are.