Sorry I never got back to thanking you all for your advice. I understand no birth control method is 100% but that is a risk I have already considered and feel confident in my birth control method.
I still have not had the conversation, I am so nervous about it. Today he went out on a date with a new girl so I am hoping he might be healing from his breakup.
Things sure were a lot more simple when I just had casual relationships with other people lol.