Welcome to our forum.
It sounds like you have settled happily into the poly lovestyle (despite some bumps on the road). It's great to have you onboard; I'm sure you will find many new friends here, and have many chances to read and converse.
I am glad for you for this exciting time in your life. Polyamory opens up so many possibilities. Hope you enjoy your stay here!
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"