Originally Posted by Emm
Yes it is. If you want a monogamous relationship don't sign up for a poly relationship hoping that the other person will change their mind.
And this: makes you a cowgirl and no better than someone trying to worm her way between a monogamous couple.
BAM! Nailed that sucker like a rocket powered hammer.
I would only quibble to say that your way of thinking with regards to "I cant do this" isn't wrong. If poly isn't your thing, it isn't your thing. That's not a thoughtcrime.
The "I kinda want to move in so he has a greater chance of choosing me" is off, though. Totes.