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Old 12-06-2012, 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Emm View Post
Yes it is. If you want a monogamous relationship don't sign up for a poly relationship hoping that the other person will change their mind.

And this: makes you a cowgirl and no better than someone trying to worm her way between a monogamous couple.
BAM! Nailed that sucker like a rocket powered hammer.

I would only quibble to say that your way of thinking with regards to "I cant do this" isn't wrong. If poly isn't your thing, it isn't your thing. That's not a thoughtcrime.

The "I kinda want to move in so he has a greater chance of choosing me" is off, though. Totes.
I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."
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