Don't worry Anne, you do not sound too harsh, and I appreciate your insight. I have always had a hard time asking for what I want/need- not just in love! I'm working on it... I was a psych major for a reason
In the beginning, I know she read everything, but as time has passed I am not sure if she keeps it up or not. He has asked me if I wanted him to delete messages in the past few months, so I suspect she still does.
Well, we had part 1 of my attempt to bring down walls and ask for things that I need on Sat (in that discussion, we just discussed improving communication, that I need a little reassurance from him, that I am worried to talk about issues with him)... And I have yet to see any improvements in our situation. No plans to get together. I'm not feeling optimistic. But trying to practice patience.