I guess I will focus on one-night stands for now and try to renegotiate in the future if I feel the need.
Well... you could focus on getting into right relationship with your wife first. You have already started, so focus on strengthening the communication there?
Maybe don't even bother with one night stands if that is NOT the happiness you are looking for? You sound like you want the opportunity for serious dating and developing a serious girlfriend.
Could any of this help?
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