John and I have an agreement, when I'm out with V, if its more than 3 hours that I txt him at least once.
Usually its just an I love you, with an I love you too back and thats it, but it allows him to tell me anything important at a time that is good for me in the date.
Originally, we didnt do this, but John expressed that he was uncomfortable with me being gone all day and not communicating with him, so now we have that agreement.
You have to let your needs be known and be willing to compromise. For me, most of my dates with V are less than 4 hours, so I usually get a block of time to just spend with him, but when we do get a full day I'm not leaving John out in the dust.
- For the pursuit of happiness, not the sit around and wait for happiness -
Jen - bi female
John (Juntas)- husband
M - John's girlfriend