Originally Posted by MeeraReed
And also, you can COMMUNICATE with your girlfriend about her ex, as poly people do about their other relationships...you can point out how frequently she mentions the ex, for example, and say that you support the friendship completely but it also makes you jealous to hear about her CONSTANTLY.
Moowithelsie, I'd think you should _start_ with this. Maybe you're just overreacting and she is just good friends with this ex. Maybe you can work it out before going into a polyamory discussion or even trying to decide yourself.
You might just be jumping the gun... especially after only a month!