I like this topic, and I fully support the idea of having sexual time with oneself!
For me, I value my alone time* so much that I don't need to do anything different to distract myself when my guy is on a date. We don't live together, and I don't seem to experience much jealousy, so if I know he's out with someone I just don't feel any different than on any other night that I'm not seeing him.
Sometimes I have anxious feelings when I hear about the dates afterwards, so that's the part I work on dealing with. I have no qualms related to him being on a date while I'm at home. (That's just me though--I've always been that way).
*And not just to play with myself!!
Single, straight, female, solo, non-monogamous.