Va nd I had a talk about ultimate goals for our relationship and we are on agreeable footing. He never wants to be more than a secondary to me, so that leaves me free to look for the primary I want, without hindering or interfering with our relationship.
I love that we can talk so openly and honestly about this kind of thing with each other.
I'm not eagerly pursuing looking for the primary I want, but I'm not closing myself off to possibilities either.
- For the pursuit of happiness, not the sit around and wait for happiness -
Jen - bi female
John (Juntas)- husband
M - John's girlfriend