Well, I was gently suggesting you cut back on time spent with other lovers, to have more couple time and "me time." Didn't think you'd break up entirely with everyone except Elemental!
Now, Sync had to go. She's trouble, and I think she needs a mono bf, even a live in one, since she's so needy. I hope she finds one.
But I hope you can blend Lily and Willow back in on a more infrequent comfortable basis eventually!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)