Aww, I'm glad you guys got through everything fine.
I feel for Lin, I get SO touchy when it comes to people who are skeptical of poly to the point that they might think of me as a homewrecker for being involved with a married person.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.